Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Contray to popular believe,Woman and Men are not Equal...but that's okay

   
 Woman and men are not entirely equal,but you know what , that's perfectly fine. Actually it is a good thing we are not equal. Now don't get me wrong, men nor women should never face discrimination, They should be treated as human beings and be treated with respect . That is not the type of "equal" I am talking about. I'm simply talking about how both male and female are different physically, emotionally, and even mentally. Our differences work together. Where one falls short the other may excel. It is like the perfect partnership.

For instance, men are proven to be stronger then woman. Their bodies have more lean muscle then women and women are composed of more fat then men. It tends to play on each others natural desire. Women tend to want a man that is strong and of a certain build while men like women that are soft and curvy. It is the basics of our unconscious attraction for each other. Obviously there is always the exception to the rule. It is also important to point out that just because men are stronger does not make men better then woman .This just makes us different from one another.

Men and woman are also very different emotionally and mentally . Woman tend to base their decision making on emotions, while men tend to base their decision making on logic . Both of these decision making processes can have there own pros and cons. Think about the endless jokes about relationships. A man ask a women what is wrong and her statement back is " I am fine!" We all know that there is a lot more meaning to those words then the Webster Dictionary version. On the other hand. If a man says he is 'fine' then he is really "fine." Think about making decisions in regards to child rearing. For example, if a couple's child is being bullied at school, the parents are going to responded differently. A women is going to be more nurturing and comforting. It is more likely that the women is even going to feel empathy and relate to the pain. The man is going to want to figure out how to correct this problem logically. They are going to want to figure out steps to take to end the problem. This is were the man and woman can come together in their difference to have a balanced outcome.
  
There are several researchers that show how men and women are different mentally. Men are mentally stronger in some area and women are stronger is others. It is said that Woman tend to be better multitaskers then men.  Men generally have better depth perception then woman. Women can notices slight differences in color. Men have a better sense of direction then women. The research show that these difference actually date back to the beginning of time. Women and men had to work together to survive. Men were responsible for hunting and they had to protect the family. This is why they have a better sense of direction and depth perception. These attributes helped in survival. Women would take care of the family and be responsible for gathering some food like berries. this is were noticing the slight differences in color comes in handy. This would help in determining if certain berries were deadly. Does this mean one sex is better then the other? Absolutely not! It our differences working together.

Can you imagine if everybody thought like a woman or if everybody thought like a man . Now some of you might be thinking, "well that would be great!" But when it comes down to it, both men and woman need each other .What one gender lacks the other gender can usually pick up the slack.  We need to realize that we are not "equal" and  that is a beautiful thing. If we could embrace that and stop having the "battle of the sexes" maybe we could find a mutual respect. Unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect world. It would be to simple if we all just got along. We all know there is always going to be sexism, feminism, chauvinism, disrespect and inequality. However, one can wish for a more perfect world. 

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